Question for the men???

[bulaskel]

i was with sonya for 2 and a half years. we split & got back together 3 years later. 6 years after that we married. we were together for 6 months then seperated then got divorced 2 yrs later. my honest opinion don't always trust your heart sometimes it can cloud your judgement. i am now with a wonderful young woman, we have bought a house together, we got 'bula' a beautiful 6 month old red boxer ( he's the greatest ) and are having our first babay in early december. life goes on. there's a special someone out there for us all and sometimes they come to us not us to them. all the best from down under.
( i'm only 32 and are starting to rebuild my life again. YOU CAN DO IT. )

[DanCat]

Clover's Mom you ok????

[Clover's Mom]

Hello everyone,

I'm sorry I haven't written in a few days, or has it been a week - I've just been trying to deal with everything one day at a time, moving into the spare bedroom at the moment, and trying to stay away ignore him as much as possible - kinda hard when you live in a 2 bedroom apt. though. He did send me an e-mail stating how he was so very sorry for the words he said during our argument and that he didn't mean them - of course my response was it's pretty hard to forget words like that...so he leaves Sat. for Peru till the 15th, and then maybe I can come out of my room I wish I had somewhere to go at the moment, but with Clover and Southern California it's not so easy - hehehehe - I just have to share this, Dan decided to put two screen names, his and mine on the computer so I couldn't snoop in his stuff, since he had admin. right he could basicly do whatever he wanted...well since he thinks I'm just so unknowleageable , right in front of him I change the entire computer around so he couldn't even sign in - uggg sometimes it amazes me, his memory that is, doesn't he remember at Wright Patt. I worked in computer security before taking my admin position. We'll we haven't argued in 3 days, oh wait this is because I don't talk to him. There is good news though, Clover's mange is going away!!!! I'll post more later, need to get some work done, since I basicaly haven't done anything in 3 weeks Thank you again everyone!

[DanCat]

Glad to hear you are doing ok, and that Clover is getting better. Good luck.

[Rocco850]

Sara,

How's everything going??? Did you find an apartment or anything new?

[Clover's Mom]

Hi Everyone,

No I haven't found an apartment...abradbury, thank for the craigslist, the only problem is LA is so big that most of those apartments are a good hour to hour 1/2 from work, there is nothing close by that is suitable, maybe I shouldn't be picky right now but I am. He is in Peru until Sunday, then leaves again Monday till the 27th of so for another trip. I really am amazed by his logic - I went out with my girlfriends Friday night, and stay the night at one of their houses, anyway he called me at 3:30 in the morning to bascially see where I am, and to tell me he needs a ride to the airport...anyway - I get home around 7am, and his car is gone, good he got himself to the airport - well anyway to make a long story short, I get to work and I find his car parked in my companies parking slots in the garage, I couldn't believe it, then he keeps e-mailing me telling me about the trip, then proceeds to e-mails the whole world to say "I hope Clover is okay, I had to put her in her kennel Saturday morning before the airport since Sara decided not to come home." Well first of all she was only in there for 3 1/2 hours before I came home, he left around 4:30 and I got home at 8. UGGGG! Then he e-mailed me to ask if I would validate his parking...WTF?! OH well - the house is nice while he is gone...

[Tricia77]

Always move forward, never look back!

I will keep you in my prayers that you find your right answer.

Tricia

[rog1006]

I am so sorry to read this! The whole thread has just made me sick inside for you.
If I were you, I'd be using this time that he's gone to get my stuff together and leave. He sounds like a lunatic and cannot be trusted. I would file for divorce and get a place and not tell him ANYTHING. I would refuse to talk to him and I would get an order of protection against him so if he tried to come talk to you at the office, you coud have him arrested. He's a horribly lying fraud and who knows what he is capable of.

Big hugs...and BE CAREFUL!


Christine

[Austin's Mom]

What a D&$K! Did he actually think you would take off and not take your dog? DUH.

[Clover's Mom]

Austins Mom - I acutally think he did. that is how his thinking/logic has been lately - Clover is my life, without her I'm now sure how I would of made it through any of this...

...he proceeded to write me an e-mail: "when you never showed up i tried to catch a cab, none were there, so i took my only other option. you didn´t answer your phone the first time, so i did what you would have done.
enough about the car. what was i supposed to do? you were gone, your car was gone, and i was left with the kid alone with no idea if you were ever coming back, in trouble, in jail, or in a hospital."

Right...I'm sorry wasn't aware that we now have to check in on each other - and if I wasn't going to be coming back, Clover, along with my things would of been gone.

Uggggg - makes me so sick...

[kelseighgirl]

Even though he has been acting like a D--K.....atleast he did have enough common sense to take Clover to the kennel rather than leave her alone. I guess he did what he thought was right. Im glad to see he has done something that has made some sense.