I do have caller ID and I just went through my phone calls, and listed in a journal all the times he has called...one night was 16 times in 1 1/2 hrs and the following night was 21 times through the course of the day. There have been many times that I will not answer as he called collect a few times. I cannot afford fighting long distance on my bill!! He has been told that he can call at 7pm to ONLY talk to Jessica. I no longer take the phone when they are done talking...she hangs up!
Basak...how right you are!! He thinks I'm such a b@tch...so
now I am living up to it! I am finding now that the more he annoys and harrasses me, the more I do what I have to do to protect myself and the kids! He is actually driving me to get tough instead of wasting time feeling sorry for him, so he's really doing me a huge favor...he just doesn't know it!
He is showing classic abusive behaviour! First the name calling and accusations...then he's all apologetic and says he just loves me soooo much and didn't mean to say all those nasty things! He actually tries to say it's my fault that he speaks to me like that because I make him mad!!!
I feel good that I have accomplished alot in the past few days. I have a lawyer now...custody papers are being filed...cable is now in my own name...looks like I will be moving very soon into the New Year...meeting set up to make arrangements for my 13yr old to change schools...I have MUCH more time to care for my kids the way I should without John's stress!
As for my health..I am scared about this heart stuff! I am very careful about what I eat, especially because of the GERD problem I have. I feel as though no matter how careful I am, it's beyond my control because it's genetic! BUT..at least now I can focus on my issues with a level head!
Here's to a MERRY & PEACEFUL CHRISTMAS!!