So I went to see a lawyer today and she is going to push for a motion of temporary custody until the custody issue is settled. John has been calling nonstop everyday and he has become very beligerant and hostile. He professes his love for me and his daughter and the boys, then he will ask what I have been up to and the whole conversation turns into an argument. He has called me some very hurtful names, accuses me of running around and sleeping around, and now he is threatening to prove me incompetent and have Jessica removed from my house! He's a freakin joke but I have to say, he still manages to hurt me so badly!! He has buddied up with his family who has been absent from his life for the past 3yrs. He has told them some very personnal things about our home life, such as the fact that my 13yr old son was setting small fires in his room. He burned the carpet, dresser and windowsill. It has never been anything serious enough to call the fire department, but serious enough to get him some help. This was my sons way of crying out for help. He was stressed from living in this hell we have been stuck in and that is how he reacted! However, he is seeing a fantastic counsellor and my boy is a different kid entirely since John has been gone! Well, now John and his family are saying that he poses a danger to our daughters safety and she can be removed from the house! I know it's a load of bull and I am very confident that the courts will be in my favor. I am doing all that is possible to help my kids deal with all the dysfunction that has happened in our home...because of JOHN!!! He left the cable in his name and has been threatening me daily to have it cut off. So, I called his bluff and had it disconnected yesterday and put in my name! He now owes the $300 bill he left me with!! lol I hung up on him the other night as he was calling me some very vile names! I had to unplug my phones because he wouldn't stop calling. That was at 10pm. I plugged them back in at 12:30am, as my son stayed at a friends overnight, and I prefer the phone to be connected in case of emergency. As soon as I plugged it in...it was ringing. If he continues, I am calling the police and have him charged with harrassment!
What the hell is the matter with this guy!! I am trying so hard to stay positive, and just basically survive, and he is making it all so difficult...adding to my problems and stress!! I also had a doctors appt. today with a specialist and was told that my blood results indicate an extremely high cholesterol count (norm. is 4..mine is 9.5!!) and have to take lipitrol now to get it down. He is scheduling an appt. with the heart specialist, as he says I am a heart-attack waiting to happen!! That just freaks me out because my dad died at the age of 58 from a massive heart attack. He dealt with heart disease since he was 40! I am 40!!
John is pushing me to my limits, and I am going to start getting really tough with him. He doesn't think so, but I am a hell of alot smarter than he is!! Wish me luck!